Which?

Smelling the roses or inefficient?
For often, my lack of speed does not mentally please.

Confident or show-off?
With very little can I label true ability.

Plea for help or attention-seeking?
If I cannot solve my problems, no one can.

Friendly or selfish?
There is need to fill my lack.

Slow-and-steady or just plain useless?
Anyone else is fast-and-steady: Relatively.

Thinker or lazy?
The former is understood. The latter is "weird".

Unlucky or stupid?
It must be a very unlucky streak that I am on, then.

Continue or stop?
Forget it. I should not attempt such complex styles.